About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
58 | |
Star Sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
193cm (6' 4.0") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Technical Diploma | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
18 - 62 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Greying | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; Danish; Dutch; English; Finnish; French; Gaelic / Irish; German; Hebrew; Italian; Norwegian; Polish; Portuguese; Russian; Spanish; Swedish | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan; Kosher | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
In His Own Words
About Him
Basic no frills, off the shelf, standard issue male. Had some great times, broke a few bits (I creak and walk funny on cold days), but never got round to having a family or anyone special in my life.
Guitarist, writer, adventurer, kitchen boy, dinosaur slayer, alligator wrestler, coelacanth neuterer, underwater unicycle juggler and braai lighter. Part owner and general dogsbody of an international award winning Irish microbrewery and restaurant when I'm not working my day job as a bush pilot. On the same wavelength as animals and get on well with them. Don't understand people at all so can't play their games. Loyal and faithful. Would have made a good dog. My best friend is a GSD/wolf and he agrees.
Socially inept and don't suffer from vanity, having spent most of my adult life in unconventional, out of the way places. Subtlety goes over my head and nuance is a closed book for me. Awkward, clumsy and tongue tied around strangers. I'm the one hiding in the corner at parties, trying to fish the sausage roll out of my drink. Don't like crowds and not above using my elbows to clear some space when the mob becomes too annoying. Good cook and a voracious reader. Self sufficient. Cleaning and doing my own laundry not an issue. Not socialised. The game playing bits never developed so it's wasted on my thick hide, and my lack of response drives people crazy. Hate phones and have the happy knack of being able to ignore them when they ring.
Low tolerance for smokers, but it's negotiable. We all have our crutch. Mine is tea. I drink gallons of the stuff. Probably too boring for most people, as my ideal holiday is having Vulcan the wolf dog with me at home, a good book and a cup of tea. I'm burned out on the crazy stuff, and getting stopped by airport security to ask why bits of me set off the metal detector is getting stale. Not very sporty, but enjoy watching rugby and cricket. Being a morning person, I like to watch the sunrise with my Boy and a cuppa. He's the handsome guy with the furry ears in my pics.
About His Ideal Match
You'll require a sense of humour that can survive having rocks bounced off it. If you're tall, that's a bonus. Your long hair will make me howl at the moon. As mentioned, prefer non smokers. Intelligence mandatory. If you can read a book in comfortable silence without the need to fill it with conversation, you'll do just fine. Flipping through a magazine doesn't count as reading. If you like curries, Asian cuisine, Middle Eastern and Italian food and fresh baked bread, we should talk. Currently writing a cookbook and having someone to experiment on would be a good thing.
No games. You're wasting your time. I just don't get it and you'll drive yourself crazy trying to push my buttons. Chances are good I won't have a clue what you're on about and your carpet chewing rages or stoney silence will go unnoticed and ignored. Social ineptitude does have some advantages in that regard. I understand this relationship stuff requires input from both to avoid going round in circles until one of us snaps. I don't get subtlety, so it's unlikely I'll be the one to crack. Too long alone makes one thick skinned and averse to company. Perils of the job out here in the desert, I'm afraid.
If you're good with animals and get on well with them, that's always a plus. I trust their judgement, although my Boy likes everyone, even those I would cross the road to avoid. I guess he sees something in people I don't, but then again he's a much nicer person than I am. In fact, he's the most gentle person I've ever met, and much like your children, he comes first in my life. My loyalty is to those important to me, ie Vulcan, but you're the same. You wouldn't have it any other way, I'm sure. I don't fit into any of the standard boxes so putting up with me could take some doing.
Did I mention you'll need a sense of humour?
What His Friends Say
Polaris hasn't asked any friends to write a recommendation yet.
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short; Medium |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Obscure |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Mild; Optimistic; Quiet; Realistic; Shy; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Outdoorsy (I'm usually dressed for the bush) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; Opera; Rock |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
Books: |
Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Educational; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Mystery; Sci-Fi; War; Westerns |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Healthy living; Investing; Making Music; Reading; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Archery; Bungee jumping; Canoeing; Cricket; Curling; Extreme sports; Fencing; Field Hockey; Fishing; Flying / Gliding; Hang- / Paragliding; Ice Hockey; Ice Skating; Kitesurfing; Martial arts; Rugby; Sailing; Scuba diving; Shooting; Sky diving; Squash; Swimming; Volleyball; Walking; White water rafting |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Chinese; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none; Sugar-free; Carb-free |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at Work: |
I work only a few hours a week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Erotica; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
I'm non-practicing |
Dream Home: |
Cabin in the mountains |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods |
Feelings about using love2meet: |
Curious; Jaded |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
