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Online: 17 October 2017

Modified: More than 6 months ago

About Him

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
42
Star Sign:
Libra
Height:
176cm (5' 9.3")
Body Type:
Average
Looks:
Average
Hair Colour:
Dark Brown
Eye Colour:
Brown
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Afrikaans
Religion:
Christian / Protestant
Marital Status:
Never Married
Looking for:
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term; Marriage
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
Maybe
Daily Diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Regular
Drinking:
Non-Drinker
Education:
Postgraduate degree
Occupation:
Ask me later
Income:
Enough

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Johannesburg (Gauteng, South Africa)
Gender:
Male
Age Range:
23 - 51
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
Any
Body Type:
Any
Looks:
Any
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Not important at all
Ethnicity:
Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian
Home Language:
Any
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
Marital Status:
Never Married
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
Any
Daily Diet:
Any
Smoking:
Any
Drinking:
Any
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About Him

First off, I don't consider myself to be unattractive but being on a site like this does expose one to 'evaluation'. I'm just a normal guy looking for someone I find physically attractive and who I can connect with. Let's not kid ourselves guys, that's why we have pics up here.

First up, not looking to get 'married'. That's a decision made between two people but I'm not closed to the idea! I'm looking for a mature person (irrespective of age), an equal who I'll adore physically and emotionally. I'm looking for a 'mans man' who I can be myself with, experience new things with and who'll appreciate me for who I am.

Unfortunately (or fortunately) I'm an idealist (bit of a romantic) but realise that we all come with a history (who doesn't) But its more about where you're headed than where you've been.

I'm loving, honest and loyal. I have a crazy (sometimes dark) sense of humor, enjoy intimacy, good conversations or "chilling" on the couch. I enjoy being a lover AND a best friend. The frivolous things in life have their place as do the meaningful and lasting.

I know how to have fun and I know how to be serious.

I'm looking for the guy who could possibly be the one (it's the romantic again heheh) I don't believe in the perfect guy, but I have to believe someone is out there, and I'd like him to give me that chance. I know who I am and I'm comfortable with myself - although everyday finds us meeting new challenges. I'm versatile, straight acting and straight forward, if you are looking for a fem please don't respond.... (sorry ladies - no offense intended) Not looking for a one night stand or to just get laid either ...not just yet anyway hahahaha

About His Ideal Match

This is a little more difficult. I'd have to say it's in the eyes :-) Physical attraction is a must but I also believe this is in the eye of the beholder. Like I said, I'm not an unattractive guy but I am a guy, looking for a guy who is comfortable being a guy...a good body doesn't hurt either :-)

A man who is gentle but strong, isn't only about the sex (but...heheh) open and kind, straight acting and someone who can love and be loved. He must be able to have fun and be able to have deep conversations that can last all night or at least parts of it ;-) ;-)

Someone who is not full of themselves or so arrogant that there is only space for himself in his life, or so insecure that be borders on overly needy. Yes, we all need someone but he must have confidence (although shyness can be a very cute sometimes) He must be down to earth and looking for the 'real' things in life and in a partner - wherever it may be.

Someone who can cuddle and be affectionate and sensitive (but this does not mean talking about our feelings all the time!!!!) when he needs to be and who will allow me to love him the same way. I'm looking for the real deal, or someone who is prepared to at least try.

He must be gentle but firm. Preferably not someone into the whole 'scene'. Also, he must understand that I have a lot of passion for my career and would not try 'compete' with work (this goes both ways). Ideally he would also have goals and be career driven, he must have some aim in life. People do not 'complete' each other, we compliment who we are and could be.

Sorry guys, but I'm not attracted to fems or someone 'streetwise' looking for cheap thrills.
In Short, that real guy out there looking for someone special...(if he exists)

If I do contact you, I would love to hear from you, even if it is to say you don't find me attractive in some way. (One liners can be so impersonal) Just take a few seconds to get back to me. I will offer the same courtesy :-)

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More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Facial Hair:
I have a goatee
Body Hair:
Hairy
Fashion Sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Disabilities:
I have none
Hair Style:
Short
Body Art:
A tattoo or two
Personality Traits
Sense of Humour:
Dry
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party Behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality Traits:
Cautious; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Realistic; Shy; Stable
Valued Qualities:
Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance
Leisure & Entertainment
Favourite Colour:
Brown
Favourite Clothing:
A leather biker's jacket
Date Activities:
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Cuisine:
Chinese; Fast food; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai
Books:
Best-sellers; Fantasy; Fiction; Horror; Mystery; Romance
TV Shows:
Action/Adventure; Comedy/Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; Sci-Fi
Movie Preferences:
Action; Adult; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi
Interests:
Cooking; Gardening; Reading; Singing; Surfing the Internet
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Hectic
Time at Work:
I should have a bed in my office
Pastimes of choice:
Socialising with friends
Time Online:
I'm on several hours a day
Cooking:
I love it!
Dining Out:
I eat out a few times a month
TV Habits:
There're several shows I watch regularly
Movie Frequency:
Once or twice a month
Sport Involvement:
Not involved at all
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've got a brother
Family Closeness:
We're average
Current Relationship:
I'm single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm unlikely to move
Reading:
I love it
Likes & Dislikes
Pets (Have):
Cat(s)
Pets (Like):
Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s)
Turn-offs:
Long hair
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Dream Home:
Stilt house in the jungle
Religious Attendance:
Rarely
Retirement Plans:
Living in a quiet cabin in the woods
Politics:
Liberal
Honesty:
Extremely
Feelings about using love2meet:
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic