MerLadyGirl

48 – Sandton (Fourways area), Gauteng, South Africa

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Online: Yesterday

Modified: A week ago

About Her

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Sandton (Fourways area), Gauteng, South Africa
Gender:
Female
Age:
48
Star Sign:
Cancer
Height:
180cm (5' 10.9")
Body Type:
Slim
Looks:
Very Attractive
Hair Colour:
Light Brown
Eye Colour:
Blue-Green
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Other
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious
Marital Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Activity partners; Friends; Long-term; Marriage
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Postgraduate degree
Occupation:
Technical / Science / Engineering
Income:
Comfortable

About Her Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Centurion; Bedfordview; Edenvale; Krugersdorp; Magaliesburg; Midrand; Randburg; Sandton (Gauteng, South Africa)
Gender:
Male
Age Range:
44 - 58
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
193cm (6' 4.0") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller
Body Type:
Any
Looks:
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Moderately important
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox
Marital Status:
Never Married; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian
Smoking:
Non-Smoker; Occasional
Drinking:
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker
Education:
Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation:
Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Food Services; Labour / Construction; Legal; Medical / Dental; Retired; Sales and Marketing; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Transportation; Agriculture
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy; Fat cat
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In Her Own Words

About Her

I would love a mature partnership, an epic, passionate, legendary love. I have so much to give and share and so do u. We both know how to take the reins, be and create what we want. Fun feeds and cleans our souls giving us fresh perspective. Life is meant to be wondrous, fun, spontaneous & uplifting. I want longevity, exclusivity & continuity without mediocrity or settling.
Curious, engaged, compassionate, sincere, stable, resourceful, loyal, creative, involved and authentic. I'll be a challenge, but you are too much man for a pushover. Wise, but soft, caring, trusting & respecting until I'm proved wrong. I know that others overreactions are a commentary on themselves and not an indictment on me. I'm a modern woman with old fashioned values, and established in my own right. I value my intuition and honor my feelings. You are grateful that I won't be ignored until my emotions explode. You are proud of me as your woman because I know my truth and only want a man worthy of me. Like me, you have studied, striven, triumphed, failed, lost love, won love, and conquered, traveled, grown, and extended oneself. You are also interested in self-development and always strive to better yourself. You are not looking for a mommy to fund your golf habit.
We both simply want to love and be loved in return. We'll only get there if we push past the fear of opening ourselves to creating a connection. That's only possible for courageous folks who can conquer the fear of being overwhelmed or being rejected. Our outlook on life defines our actions and becomes our destiny.

About Her Ideal Match

Are you made of the right stuff? I want a man who's moral integrity is paramount. I want to respect you because you don't buckle when I need you. I'll call you out on bad behaviour, but not in public. Are you real, masculine, strong and capable and consistent? Gentle with big open heart? Do you want a partnership built on reciprocation, respect, support, mutual growth and friendship, and not just a date? You have fun and make a woman's heart feel safe because you deserve a feminine woman. You cherish her in all her strengths and weakness.
You don't fear emotions but strive for honesty, sincerity, integrity, etiquette and self-control above material trappings. You are discerning, expect quality and deserve what you want. Your daily choices reflect respect for yourself. You support and encourage mutual growth. You are mature and authentic to resolve misunderstandings. You trust yourself so your woman can feel safe. You pull yourself together to meet obstacles and grow from them. You embrace your wilder, more unconventional side. You trust your decisions and you stand by them. Your pride is masculine, not arrogance from insecurity. You avoid drama or power struggles because you've resolved previous relationships. Your success is from understanding and really liking yourself.
You're humble, gracious, and laugh easily, at me and at yourself. We challenge each other to grow and unanticipated challenges don't see you panic. You are an old-school gentleman, capable of listening, honestly communicating needs and being mindful of mine to co-create boundaries suitable to nurture the space between us. You have the capacity to connect with your mind, body, spirit and soul. You know the difference between being 'in-love' and loving. Above all you really like yourself. You are imperfectly perfect, so we complement each other. You are a real man so you're comfortable in leading. If this is you, I can't wait to meet you.

More About Her

More Physical Characteristics
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Fashion Sense:
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms)
Disabilities:
I have none
Hair Style:
Long; Straight; It has its moods
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality Traits
Sense of Humour:
Light-hearted
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party Behaviour:
A social butterfly
Personality Traits:
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Stable
Valued Qualities:
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance
Leisure & Entertainment
Favourite Colour:
White
Date Activities:
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks
Cuisine:
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese
Music Preferences:
Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Folk; Heavy Metal; Latin; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rock
Books:
Best-sellers; Crime; Fantasy; Fiction; Horror; Mystery; Romance; Self-help
TV Shows:
Action/Adventure; Comedy/Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; Talk shows; Variety shows
Movie Preferences:
Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Mystery; Romance
Interests:
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Reading; Sewing; Surfing the Internet; Writing books; Yoga
Sports:
Aerobics; Backgammon; Birdwatching; Extreme sports; Horse Riding; Martial arts; Sailing; Scuba diving; Shooting; Snorkeling; Walking; Water skiing
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Time at Work:
I work a standard 40 hour week
Pastimes of choice:
Socialising with friends
Time Online:
I'm online more than I'm offline
Cooking:
I love it!
Dining Out:
I eat out a few times a week
TV Habits:
I watch a few favourite shows each week
Movie Frequency:
I wait for movies to come out on video
Sport Involvement:
Watching from the sidelines
Animals:
I love my pet(s)
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've got brothers
Family Closeness:
My friends are my main family
Current Relationship:
I'm single
Willing to Relocate:
For the right person, to the moon!
Reading:
I love it
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
Likes & Dislikes
Pets (Have):
Cat(s); Fish; Rodent(s)
Pets (Like):
Bird(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Horse(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping
Turn-offs:
Body piercing(s); Long hair
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Dream Home:
Beach house
Religious Attendance:
Rarely
Retirement Plans:
Sipping margaritas on a beach
Politics:
Moderate
Honesty:
Extremely
Feelings about using love2meet:
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited