I'm not a controlling type person and not jealous by nature. If you are the type of person who feels like you have to check up on your partner's phone calls or e-mails,
we probably wouldn't be a good match. Been there, done that, and it turns out my former spouse (who was checking up on me out of guilt) was the one fooling around.
I don't cheat when I'm in a relationship, and don't want someone who does or who is constantly suspicious. I've never been abusive and I hate cruelty.
About His Ideal Match
This part is easy. I look for a Proverbs 31 "type" of woman. I know that is an almost impossible search but I know the characteristics and look for them. If you are unsure of what I mean, let me explain...
First, there MUST be a passion for Christ. That is not negotiable.
Second, being a decent cook is important. I love to cook but if your idea of a fancy dinner involves take out, there is a problem. I am not looking for gourmet meals every day, but you should know how to use salt and pepper at least...lol
Third, do not expect to change or control me. I would never do that to you. I am a little rough around the edges so patience is a HUGE plus. All I ask is for you to be open and honest with me.
Fourth, and last. While I tend to look upon the heart of a person to see their true beauty, you should take a little pride in your appearance. I am not looking for the "perfect" body. Just someone who is comfortable in their own skin so to speak. If you are comfortable being dressed up all day on your day off, great. If you want to wear sweats or pajamas after I long day at work, that is great also. A person who knows how to dress down or dress up depending on where we are going.
Hopefully, you have a better understanding of who I am looking for. Or read Proverbs 31 for a more detailed list.
Answer this question for me
I am pretty approachable. And if I have to suggest a question for someone to ask me, that takes away from the fun of introductions. Just ask me whatever comes to mind. I am not easily offended.
I would like to "Do Lunch" with
I will have to get back to this one later.