Whereareyou

55 – Stellenbosch, Western Cape, South Africa

If you don't own a dishwasher move on (seriously)

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Online: More than 6 months ago

Modified: More than 6 months ago

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About Her

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Stellenbosch, Western Cape, South Africa
Gender:
Female
Age:
55
Star Sign:
Libra
Height:
176cm (5' 9.3")
Body Type:
Full figured
Looks:
Attractive
Hair Colour:
Dark Brown
Eye Colour:
Green
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Afrikaans
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious
Relationship Status:
Separated
Looking for:
Just online friends; Friends; Open to possibilities
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Some University / College
Occupation:
Sales and Marketing
Income:
Ask me later

About Her Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Anywhere in the World
Gender:
Male
Age Range:
52 - 65
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
176cm (5' 9.3") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller
Body Type:
A few extra pounds
Looks:
Any
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Not important at all
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
Afrikaans; English
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Spiritual, but not religious
Relationship Status:
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:
No; Yes, not living with me
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker
Education:
Current University / College Student; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation:
Executive / Management; Finance; Food Services; Legal; Medical / Dental; Retired; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Agriculture
Income:
Solvent; Comfortable
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In Her Own Words

About Her

Don't care about looks. I am not at all unattractive...a photo? Why, is it the defining factor? Not for me. Personal cleanliness key. Read, write, spell & speak well. Hard to say what I want (I believe in second time around). My actual good match is out there. It is easier to say what you don't want, and yes, this certainly does mean it has been my experience and I don't like or want it again. I love love love sex with the right man. I don't sleep around. Move on if that is what you are looking for. I married the church mouse for love. This time it must be to someone who is financially secure and whom I absolutely love. I am no prude but if you swear a lot and like to show your childish temper move on. Bad driver - move on. Don't take care of material objects - move on.
Intellect - So, I am not the female equivalent of Einstein but I am intelligent and enjoy good and witty conversation. I read a lot. I don't have a lot. My marriage cost me a lot. I am quite capable of working and I expect to work until I can't. You need to be able to offer me something into retirement like a home you OWN that we can grow old in, maintain, tend to our garden, have fun in, socialise in, I am very homely and like to make a nest for us. I married a poor man for love - not going to be caught again. To clarify don't be poor or rich, just have enough money. Comfortable. Security for the both of us.
So, what do I offer:
Honesty, kindness, loyalty, loving, thoughtful, fun, sexy, funny,
strength - yes I can pick myself up and believe in a relationship again. I am 54 "go figure", pretty, young looking, feminine (like to look and smell nice), like to dress up a bit for a special occasion, dress classically for work, not fond of make-up but wear it to work, wavy long hair, love dresses, long pants, pretty tops. Don't have a perfect body. I get on well with all people from a casual braai to a formal banquet. Exercise buff - No.

About Her Ideal Match

No adrenaline junkie. Don't have the money to travel anymore now, who cares. Hope you have a family. I cook good ordinary food. Ex drank too much so it is a real big red flag for me! No marijuana/smoking. A gentleman that is going to be patient with me, pop the question when it is just right, grow old with on the stoep, enjoy life with, do things we can do together (we all get a bit creaky after 54 so don't hide it), plan day trips, go away for weekends, walk on the beach, mountains, sea, sunsets, cooking, fun outings on birthdays, anniversaries, little surprises at home, musicals, plays, wine farms, bistros, markets. I have my girlfriends and you should go out and enjoy the rugby with your mates. Please OWN a decent car, job, home, dishwasher (I'm not the housemaid again) and be willing to share it with me when the time comes - or move on. I am not looking for a rich guy or cash cow. I'm a hard-working frugal person who doesn't waste money or resources. You have no baggage, what you didn't live?

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More About Her

More Physical Characteristics
Hair Style:
Long; Curly
Eyesight:
I sometimes wear glasses
Disabilities:
I have none
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality
Sense of Humour:
Witty
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The head
Party Behaviour:
An average mingler
Personality Traits:
Cautious; Funny; Intelligent; Outspoken; Realistic
Valued Qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Sexiness
Fashion Sense:
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms)
Favourite Clothing:
Anything, as long as it's black
Favourite Colour:
Green
Leisure & Entertainment
Date Activities:
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach
Music Preferences:
Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Instrumental; Latin; Pop / Top 40; Reggae
Reading:
I love it
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; Horror; Mystery; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help
TV Habits:
I don't have a TV
TV Shows:
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Game shows; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Reality shows; Sci-Fi; Talk shows
Movie Frequency:
Never
Movie Preferences:
Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Sci-Fi
Interests:
Cooking; Gardening; Photography; Reading; Surfing the Internet; Writing books; Writing poetry
Sport Involvement:
Bored to death
Sports:
Birdwatching; Dancesport; Swimming; Walking
Food
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
Food:
Chinese; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai
Go Out to Eat:
I only eat out on special occasions
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Organised
Time at Work:
I work a standard 40 hour week
Pastimes of choice:
Reading a book
Time Online:
I'm online more than I'm offline
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've got brothers
Family Closeness:
We're dysfunctional
Willing to Relocate:
For the right person, to the moon!
Likes & Dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Have):
Bird(s); Dog(s)
Pets (Like):
Cat(s); Fish; Other
Pets (Dislike):
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s)
Turn-ons:
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping
Turn-offs:
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Erotica; Long hair; Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Religious Attendance:
Never
Dream Home:
Beach house
Politics:
I have no interest in politics
Retirement Plans:
Sipping margaritas on a beach
Feelings about using love2meet:
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious
Honesty:
Very