About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Stellenbosch, Western Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
54 | |
Star Sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
176cm (5' 9.3") | |
Body Type: |
Full figured | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Green | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Friends; Open to possibilities | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Sales and Marketing | |
Income: |
Ask me later |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
52 - 65 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
176cm (5' 9.3") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
A few extra pounds | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Current University / College Student; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Executive / Management; Finance; Food Services; Legal; Medical / Dental; Retired; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Agriculture | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Comfortable |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
In Her Own Words
About Her
Don't care about looks. I am not at all unattractive...a photo? Why, is it the defining factor? Not for me. Personal cleanliness key. Read, write, spell & speak well. Hard to say what I want (I believe in second time around). My actual good match is out there. It is easier to say what you don't want, and yes, this certainly does mean it has been my experience and I don't like or want it again. I love love love sex with the right man. I don't sleep around. Move on if that is what you are looking for. I married the church mouse for love. This time it must be to someone who is financially secure and whom I absolutely love. I am no prude but if you swear a lot and like to show your childish temper move on. Bad driver - move on. Don't take care of material objects - move on.
Intellect - So, I am not the female equivalent of Einstein but I am intelligent and enjoy good and witty conversation. I read a lot. I don't have a lot. My marriage cost me a lot. I am quite capable of working and I expect to work until I can't. You need to be able to offer me something into retirement like a home you OWN that we can grow old in, maintain, tend to our garden, have fun in, socialise in, I am very homely and like to make a nest for us. I married a poor man for love - not going to be caught again. To clarify don't be poor or rich, just have enough money. Comfortable. Security for the both of us.
So, what do I offer:
Honesty, kindness, loyalty, loving, thoughtful, fun, sexy, funny,
strength - yes I can pick myself up and believe in a relationship again. I am 54 "go figure", pretty, young looking, feminine (like to look and smell nice), like to dress up a bit for a special occasion, dress classically for work, not fond of make-up but wear it to work, wavy long hair, love dresses, long pants, pretty tops. Don't have a perfect body. I get on well with all people from a casual braai to a formal banquet. Exercise buff - No.
About Her Ideal Match
No adrenaline junkie. Don't have the money to travel anymore now, who cares. Hope you have a family. I cook good ordinary food. Ex drank too much so it is a real big red flag for me! No marijuana/smoking. A gentleman that is going to be patient with me, pop the question when it is just right, grow old with on the stoep, enjoy life with, do things we can do together (we all get a bit creaky after 54 so don't hide it), plan day trips, go away for weekends, walk on the beach, mountains, sea, sunsets, cooking, fun outings on birthdays, anniversaries, little surprises at home, musicals, plays, wine farms, bistros, markets. I have my girlfriends and you should go out and enjoy the rugby with your mates. Please OWN a decent car, job, home, dishwasher (I'm not the housemaid again) and be willing to share it with me when the time comes - or move on. I am not looking for a rich guy or cash cow. I'm a hard-working frugal person who doesn't waste money or resources. You have no baggage, what you didn't live?
What Her Friends Say
Whereareyou hasn't asked any friends to write a recommendation yet.
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long; Curly |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Funny; Intelligent; Outspoken; Realistic |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Sexiness |
Fashion Sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite Clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Favourite Colour: |
Green |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Instrumental; Latin; Pop / Top 40; Reggae |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; Horror; Mystery; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
TV Shows: |
Action / Adventure; Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Game shows; Movie Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Reality shows; Sci-Fi; Talk shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Never |
Movie Preferences: |
Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Photography; Reading; Surfing the Internet; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
Bored to death |
Sports: |
Birdwatching; Dancesport; Swimming; Walking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; French; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Reading a book |
Time Online: |
I'm online more than I'm offline |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers |
Family Closeness: |
We're dysfunctional |
Willing to Relocate: |
For the right person, to the moon! |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Bird(s); Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Fish; Other |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Erotica; Long hair; Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking; Wealth |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Never |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement Plans: |
Sipping margaritas on a beach |
Feelings about using love2meet: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Very |
