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ReadyAtLast

58 – Krugersdorp (North West Rand), Gauteng, South Africa

sincerity and fidelity with a dash of wild

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Online: Tuesday

Modified: 05 August 2020

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About Him

Country of Origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Krugersdorp (North West Rand), Gauteng, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
58
Star Sign:
Scorpio
Height:
179cm (5' 10.5")
Body Type:
Average
Looks:
Attractive
Hair Colour:
Dark Brown
Eye Colour:
Blue
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Afrikaans
Religion:
Agnostic
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term
Have Children:
Yes, not living with me
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
Some University / College
Occupation:
Technical / Science / Engineering
Income:
Comfortable

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in Gauteng, South Africa
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
42 - 62
Star Sign:
Gemini; Cancer; Virgo; Libra; Scorpio; Sagittarius; Capricorn; Aquarius; Pisces
Height:
153cm (5' 0.2") - 181cm (5' 11.3")
Body Type:
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous
Looks:
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel
Has a Photo:
Decidedly important
Ethnicity:
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian
Home Language:
Afrikaans; Danish; Dutch; English; French; German; Italian; Polish; Portuguese; Spanish; Swedish
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Agnostic; Atheist; Spiritual, but not religious
Relationship Status:
Single; Divorced; Widowed
Have Children:
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat most things; Eat healthily
Smoking:
Non-Smoker; Occasional
Drinking:
Occasional Drinker
Education:
High / secondary school; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About Him

I'm honest, an introvert by nature (INTP) but a practiced extrovert, reasonably traveled as well as sufficiently trampled to know my way around. Less definite and opinionated than I was in my thirties, most certainly more tolerant and slower to anger. Kind. Compassionate. Adventurous. Daring. Considerate. Intelligent. Witty, apparently quite funny at times. Educated, Conversant, Passionate, Introspective, Younger than my age, Complex, Simple, Thoughtful.

I prefer mountains to beaches, walking and hiking to running or cycling, intimate gatherings to parties, MotoGP to F1, Peter Gabriel to Phil Collins, aloes to amaryllis. (and this is how we find just how well we match up).

I've seen a lot, been through a lot, still haven't found what I'm looking for. (I'm not talking about women here!)

I find it curious that we have to define ourselves in quite a one dimensional way, for example:
Relationship Status - I'm divorced, for 20 years now, but that doesn't describe the loss I felt when the mother of my children was killed
Sports involvement, some from the couch, some quite actively, Reading - sometimes voraciously, at other times not at all, I've read a fair number of books.
Online activity - I work with IT systems... and try to limit it to that and the occasional surfing.

Oh, I think it's worth adding that I have lived in SA since 1977, I'm South African, just British by birth. And did I mention I am passionate, it's apparently a Scorpio trait, and it's kept exclusively for my lover.

About His Ideal Match

You must resonate with how I describe myself, be devoid of avarice and narcissism.

I sometimes feel I have a better idea of what I don't want in a partner to what I do want, here's an attempt: You value and practice fidelity, monogamy, faithfulness, courage, are a strong independent woman as opposed to co-dependent, You are at peace with and comfortable with your own company but would love to share it with a kindred spirit. You are sexy and beautiful but you don't flaunt it, you save it for your partner.

You normally don't wear makeup, dislike shopping and visiting malls, preferring to be out there on or off the beaten track discovering more of our beautiful country and planet.

You are not averse to driving down a 4x4 trail, camping in a 4x4 bus (I have it) or a tent, hiking an overnight trail, taking a Sunday drive to a new place, riding a motorcycle (your own or on mine, I'm not likely to give up a 42 year passion, even if it is quite part time nowadays!), walking through a park, a gallery, a museum, a science expo.

You are experienced, knowledgeable, educated, yet still humble to recognise how little we really know and to see the value in others.

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More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Hair Style:
Short; Straight
Eyesight:
I sometimes wear glasses
Body Hair:
Average
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality
Sense of Humour:
Sophisticated
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The head
Party Behaviour:
An impartial observer
Personality Traits:
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Outspoken; Realistic
Valued Qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness
Fashion Sense:
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way)
Favourite Clothing:
My trusty pair of jeans
Favourite Colour:
Blue
Leisure & Entertainment
Date Activities:
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach
Music Preferences:
Alternative; Blues; Instrumental; New Age; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock; World
Reading:
It's just OK
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; Mystery; Non-fiction; Science / Technology
TV Shows:
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Game shows; Motoring; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sport
Movie Frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie Preferences:
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Independent; Mystery; Sci-Fi
Interests:
Board games; Business news; Card games; Gardening; Healthy living; Reading
Sport Involvement:
Watching from the couch
Sports:
Athletics; Backgammon; Birdwatching; Camping; Chess; Cricket; Extreme sports; Hiking; Horse Riding; Ice Skating; Motorsport; Pool; Rock climbing; Rugby; Skateboarding; Snowboarding; Walking
Food
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Food:
Doesn't matter; French; South African; Thai
Go Out to Eat:
I only eat out on special occasions
Dietary Restrictions:
Gluten-free; Lactose-free; Sugar-free
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Chilled
Time at Work:
I work a standard 40 hour week
Pastimes of choice:
Pursuing a hobby
Time Online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Take Drugs:
Not any more
Family Size:
I've got brothers and sisters
Family Closeness:
We're average
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'd consider it
Likes & Dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Like):
Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Exotic pet(s); Rodent(s)
Turn-ons:
Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping
Turn-offs:
Power
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
Find new, more meaningful work
Religious Attendance:
Doesn't apply
Dream Home:
Cottage in the country
Politics:
Anarchic
Retirement Plans:
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home
Feelings about using love2meet:
Hopeful; Curious; Excited
Honesty:
Extremely