About Him
Country of Origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Krugersdorp (North West Rand), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
58 | |
Star Sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
179cm (5' 10.5") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Agnostic | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Some University / College | |
Occupation: |
Technical / Science / Engineering | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Gauteng; North-West, South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
36 - 62 | ||
Star Sign: |
Gemini; Cancer; Virgo; Libra; Scorpio; Sagittarius; Capricorn; Aquarius; Pisces | ||
Height: |
153cm (5' 0.2") - 183cm (6' 0.0") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; Danish; Dutch; English; Finnish; French; German; Greek; Italian; Polish; Portuguese; Russian; Spanish; Swedish | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Protestant; Spiritual, but not religious | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional | ||
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
In His Own Words
About Him
I'm honest, an introvert by nature (INTP) but a practiced extrovert, reasonably travelled as well as sufficiently trampled to know my way around. Less definite and opinionated than I was in my thirties, most certainly more tolerant and slower to anger. Kind. Compassionate. Adventurous. Daring. Considerate. Intelligent. Witty, apparently quite funny at times. Educated, Conversant, Passionate, Introspective, Younger than my age, Complex, Simple, Thoughtful.
I prefer mountains to beaches, walking and hiking to running or cycling (or climbing), intimate gatherings to parties, MotoGP to F1, Peter Gabriel to Phil Collins, aloes to amaryllis. I know what I like and don't like.
I've seen a lot, been through a lot, still haven't found what I'm looking for. I find it curious that we have to define ourselves in quite a one dimensional way, for example:
Relationship Status - I'm divorced, for 20 years now, but that doesn't describe the loss I felt when my friend and the mother of my children was killed.
Sports involvement, some from the couch, some quite actively, Reading - sometimes voraciously, at other times not at all, I've read a fair number of books.
Online activity - I work with IT systems... and try to limit it to that and the occasional surfing.
Oh, I think it's worth adding that I have lived in SA since 1975, I'm South African, just British by birth. And did I mention I am passionate, it's apparently a Scorpio trait, and it's kept exclusively for my lover. i.e. a one woman man.
About His Ideal Match
You must resonate with how I describe myself, be devoid of avarice and narcissism.
I sometimes feel I have a better idea of what I don't want in a partner to what I do want, here's an attempt: You value and practice fidelity, monogamy, faithfulness, courage, are a strong independent woman as opposed to co-dependent, You are at peace with and comfortable with your own company but would love to share it with a kindred spirit. You are sexy and beautiful but you don't flaunt it, you save it for your partner.
You normally don't wear makeup, dislike shopping and visiting malls, preferring to be out there on or off the beaten track discovering more of our beautiful country and planet.
You are not averse to driving down a 4x4 trail, camping in a 4x4 bus (I have it) or a tent, hiking an overnight trail, taking a Sunday drive to a new place, riding a motorcycle (your own or on mine, I'm not likely to give up a 42 year passion, even if it is quite part time nowadays!), walking through a park, a gallery, a museum, a science expo.
You are experienced, knowledgeable, educated, yet still humble to recognise how little we really know and to see the value in others. There's more to you than meets the eye, always more...
What His Friends Say
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More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Body Hair: |
Average |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality Traits: |
Cautious; Daring; Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outspoken; Quiet; Realistic; Silly |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Folk; Instrumental; New Age; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; Mystery; Non-fiction; Science / Technology |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Game shows; Motoring; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Independent; Mystery; Sci-Fi; Westerns |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Card games; Gardening; Healthy living; Reading |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Athletics; Backgammon; Birdwatching; Camping; Chess; Cricket; Extreme sports; Hiking; Horse Riding; Ice Skating; Motorsport; Pool; Rock climbing; Rugby; Skateboarding; Snowboarding; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Doesn't matter; French; South African; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none; Gluten-free; Lactose-free; Sugar-free |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at Work: |
I don't work |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Not any more |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Power |
Work Aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious Attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream Home: |
Cottage in the country |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using love2meet: |
Hopeful; Curious; Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
